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Universal Parenting Clinic (UPC), we promote WELLNESS in parentingWELLNESS in familiesWELLNESS in the societiesWELLNESS in all nations

Motto: Wellness to Families – through universal parenting excellence  that is of global standard.

 

Mission Statement: It is our mission, to promote Wellness in the world, by promoting WELLNESS in families through WELLNESS IN PARENTING.

When we promote WELLNESS in parenting, there will be WELLNESS in families; when there is WELLNESS in families, there will be WELLNESS in the societies; when there is WELLNESS in societies, there will be WELLNESS in all nations; when there is WELLNESS in all nations of the world, there will be WELLNESS in the world; and when we have WELLNESS in the world, there will be WELLNESS and WELLBEING with the people.

 

Universal Parenting Clinic (UPC) is a programme designed to bring wellness to the world through Wellness in parenting.

Universal Parenting Clinic is the outcome of a specialised project to find meaningful practical solution to the several challenging human related problems in the world. It’s been discovered that the dwindling standard of parenting worldwide has destroyed the core values of parenting, and this has contributed to the numerous problems ravaging the world. This is because the neglect has created a vacuum that is responsible for most of the challenging human behaviours causing tears to the children, adults, their parents, and to everyone in the world; because the tentacles of the multiple parenting defects has been manifesting daily to hurt and infiltrate the very essence of human existence and peace worldwide.

Universal Parenting Clinic will also present a global platform to teach, educate, and discuss the perfect means of parenting those who are vulnerable; mental health issues in parenting ; children and parents with disabilities; and also create awareness on confirmed global breaking news on the safety of children worldwide.

Feedbacks and experience on this project (that lasted close to a decade) has shown that the main solution lies in dealing with the basics of the foundation of human existence; which has been traced to the fundamentals of parenting, through the numerous parenting techniques and principles which will be discussed on UPC.

This programme, that will be aired on selected social media platforms every Friday, will deal with all the recognised parenting issues, challenges, questions and agitations.

This programme will also provide the platform for every parent to reach out to the parenting doctor in the house to discuss their parenting challenges, experience, and concerns: and others can also contribute their opinions and experiences to answer parenting questions that may be raised by others too.

Universal parenting clinic is a project that is of Universal methodologies for a Global audience. It’s designed to heal the world of all parenting ills and the associated infectious tentacles worldwide.

The universality of the Universal Parenting Clinic makes it – THE DAWN OF A NEW ERA in parenting globally ; and it’s strongly believed , from the feedbacks and experiences of the outcome of the series of personalised family counselling, workshops, seminars, and presentations over the years , that through this universal parenting clinic, and proper understanding of the book , PARENTING WITHOUT TEARS- together, we all can promote WELLNESS in families and WELLNESS to the world.

We can stop the tears and failures from children, parents, and everyone in the world. We can kick out racism, avoidable mental health related issues,domestic violence, poverty mentality, child abuse, incivility, corruption, racial profiling, crime, suicide,bad governance, injustice, and the several anti-social behaviours in our communities and the world at large.

In the words of the Project manager and the founder of UPC, “ it’s not enough to spot and complain of problems in the world ; we all must seek meaningful solutions to the numerous challenges in our different ways. I count it a privilege to make this contribution to humanity “.

Please let’s be part of this move by being part of the show; and also by forwarding, sharing, subscribing, supporting, and practicing the lessons thereof : and get your copy of the book – Parenting without tears too

Universal Parenting Clinic is the outcome of a specialized project by Gbenga Michael Bibilari on WELLNESS  in the world.

 

He got the vision on the deplorable state of the world, which keep deteriorating daily. The world is sick, and it’s of a very dangerous and contagious infection, which makes everyone in the world prone to the ailment. Anyone can become victims of circumstances, due to the tentacles of this ailment that has defiled several cures and treatments.  So after careful study, he traced the origin and cure to parenting.

 

The vital facts of the precarious state of the world, discovered in the course of his dedicated observation, studies, investigations, and diagnostic X-ray of the world in the course of this Project which lasted nearly a decade, which brought the urge to find permanent cure includes those listed below.

 

A careful study has shown that there are more victims of Modern Slavery in the world than in the historical past, and the figure has been increasing yearly. The painful truth that should be of concern is that children and the younger generations are mostly the victims of the different types of modern slavery, which includes:

 

  1. Criminal exploitation
  2. Sexual exploitation
  • Domestic Servitude and
  1. Labour exploitation  

   

Incivility {moral decadence} has also become a rampaging and trending menace among the youths, and even adults; and it’s of alarming proportions and magnitudes nowadays.

 

The world is bedeviled with myriads of problems – Corruption, exploitation, ritual killing, drug peddling, deals in ammunitions, forgery, theft, shop lifting, murder, kidnapping, and prostitution have all been on tremendous and frightening increase worldwide.

Children are being added daily to the already alarming numbers of those who have turned themselves to social miscreants on the streets; engaging in multiple criminal and anti-social behaviours, including those publicly referred to as beggars, scavengers and destitute in some parts of the world. It is of concern that many children have become the exact opposite of the dreams of their parents by becoming objects of pity, sorrow, pain, frustration, ridicule, and embodiments of failure.

 

Many children have become tools in the hands of criminals and several agents of crimes? As a matter of fact, many children are being nurtured daily into several abuses, robbery, and many are being used for sex trafficking.

 

Homelessness, child poverty, series of additions and mental health problems have been on the alarming increase too. Yes, there has been great increase in cases of mental health issues among youths and parents from the last decade; and there is serious need for awareness and education to parents to understand and deal with such circumstances, because ignorance is causing series of tears and frustrations to many; with negative effects on children worldwide. The names are increasing daily – Depression, Anorexia Nervosa, Psychotic disorder, phobic disorder, Anxiety disorder, acute stress disorder, bipolar mood disorder, trauma, personality disorder, eating disorder, stress response syndromes, antisocial personality disorder, exhibitionism, Alcohol addiction, fregoli delusion; gender identity disorder, sexual sadism disorder, conduct disorder, Autism spectrum disorder, pathological gambling and several other addictions. The list goes on and on.  Suicide has also become more prominent among youths and parents too due to series of life challenges.

 

Not that all the challenging health conditions above are caused by parenting issues, but with proper parenting education and application, some of them could be prevented, avoided, or better controlled and managed without the feeling of resentment and frustration.

 

Many parents also engages in daily frustrating tugs of war with their children? They never imagined that parenthood would be so demanding and challenging. Many Parents are also engrossed in the numerous challenges of a child’s daily growth. It’s been a daily routine of parenting tears to many people in the world.

 

 

Gbenga Michael Bibilari’s strong views are reflected in this simple message –

 

“Parenting is of such phenomenal relevance and importance in life, that if there is a way, I would have it introduced to high schools as a subject, and as one of the elective courses in the higher institutions of learning worldwide – because It’s rather unfortunate that parenting, which is a lifetime responsibility for all, is suffering so much neglect and abandonment; and the situation is deteriorating daily; which has reached such alarming and unacceptable state. As a result, the world is now full of half-baked parents, untutored parents, uncultured parents, inexperienced parents, absentee parents, sleeping parents, and juvenile parents.

 

If you make mistakes in several projects, you may be able to rectify such project before completion or before handing over. However, parenting is more delicate, because parenting mistakes have dire consequences and repercussions, which may extend to several generations because the lives and future of children are involved. So I will advise that everyone should handle the responsibilities of parenting every child with the desired caution, necessary carefulness, and with all seriousness. It’s so serious that it has left several children and adults perpetually in the dungeon of sadness and deprivation; struggling through the shackles of poverty, frustration, deprivation and death.

 

I therefore realized that the present generation of parents cannot afford to continue raising children who will become failures in parenting, because the calamity is better imagined than experienced, going by the years of dangerous decline in parenting standard worldwide

 

After I x-rayed the complex challenges facing the world, upon due consultations, careful analysis and comprehensive research, I realized that most of the problems are deeply rooted in the poor state of parenting: because over the years, Parenting standards and the core values of parenting have gone down the drains worldwide; and unless immediate concerted efforts are put in place to address the anomalies, there will be no end to the current prevailing tales of woes and tears in the world. Though Modernization is essential, with many positives; but certain parenting standards, and the core values of parenting are sacred and essential to life, and must not be eroded by civilization.

 

WHY PARENTING, AND WHAT HAS PARENTING GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING?

 

The fact is that the society is a product of the families, because the homes are the theatre of production of whatever show we see daily in our societies. This problem seems to have defiled series of solutions already proffered and experimented, including series of rules and legislations. My discoveries in the course of my studies on this project revealed clearly that the very essence and foundation of parenting is being eroded and destroyed daily, and there is an urgent need to address this anomaly.

 

I realised this fundamental fact that the major solution is in going back to the basics, the foundation of human existence – PARENTING; and that there’s an urgent need to devote precious time on the PROJECT OF PARENTING, as a major solution to the several problems and challenges being faced all over the world: by nipping them in the bud through effective and constructive parenting because parenting errors have far reaching consequences for generational calamities. By proper parenting standard, we all can make meaningful changes to the challenging problems in the world.”

“I therefore appeal to you all to collaborate with me to revolutionize parenting worldwide. That is why the programme- parenting Clinic and the book, Parenting without tears are both for all races, ages, nations, and religious beliefs – because we all have the responsibilities to bring wellness to the world. The truth is that this is not only for you and your children alone; you should please ensure you spread the message. This is because; a single parenting error could destroy so much.  A single parenting mistake that produced a Judas, could lead many saints astray; and a single badly parented criminal could wreck havocs on millions.

For instance, that corrupt or responsible president or Prime minster is a product of parenting; that efficient, lazy, rude , incompetent or fraudulent medical practitioner, teacher, engineer, police officer, legal practitioner, mechanic, and everyone you come in contact with daily, are all products of parenting. That very polite man and woman are products of parenting too; and that rude, wicked, selfish, self-centered and arrogant person you know is also a product of parenting. Those corrupt politicians; that criminal, and those classified as social miscreants, are also products of parenting. Those perpetuating the series of anti-social behaviours and unleashing terrors on members of the public are products of parenting. That wife beater, that terror of a wife, that adulterous spouse, and those bringing tears to anyone and everyone in the world – are all products of parenting – we all are products of parenting.”

The final appeal

 The dawn of a new era in Parenting.

“Finally I want you to think about this – today, we are experiencing the results of decisions of yester-years; your tomorrow and the future of your children and future generations, will also be the product of the choices and decisions we make today. Together, let’s make parenting a success, and without tears; let’s bring WELLNESS to the world by sanitizing and revolutionizing Parenting.

I do strongly hope, that this project marks the dawn of a new era in parenting worldwide. I will partner with local councils worldwide and other agencies to organize workshops, parenting conferences and seminars. I also count on your support to spread the good news, and support me to the best of your abilities. You can sponsor thousands of this book to be distributed to the underprivileged during my parenting events and conferences, and you can donate copies to friends and neighbours too. But most importantly, spread the good news.

Till I come your way again every Friday, I am privileged, honoured, and highly favoured to support you  all the way. My name is Michael Gbenga Bibilari, {MGB} Mr. Parenting. Please think parenting, talk parenting, be passionate about parenting. Don’t just be a parent, stop posturing, be a real parent, a parent indeed, and parent well.

 

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